Fat Chicks On Top

ep. 247

Championing Pleasure

March 20, 2023

Marla Renee Stewart

Dr. Marla Renee Stewart joins Fat Chicks to talk about a life in sex and relationship education, developing the conference Sex Down South, Dickfest, and much more!

Ep. 246

Black, Beautiful, & Brilliant

March 13, 2023

Chrissy King

Chrissy King, author, joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about her new book The Body Liberation Project.

ep. 245

Sexy & Brilliant

March 6, 2023

Sunny Megatron

Sunny Megatron, sex educator, host of both "Opening Deeply" and "American Sex Podcast" talks about life as a sex educator, sex-positive parenting, aging and intimacy, and more!

ep. 244

Author Extrodinaire

Feb. 27, 2023

Rachel Kramer Bussel

Rachel Krammer Bussel, author and editor, discusses becoming an erotic writer, how erotic writing shaped her relationship with sex and intimacy, and the power of writing.

ep.243

The Healing Power of Kink

Feb. 19, 2023

Dick Wound & BiDaily

Hosts of "Off the Cuffs" podcast join Fat Chicks on Top to discuss kink discovery, how kink helped heal the relationship with thier bodies, and more!

ep. 241

Success is a Side Effect

Feb. 13, 2023

Dr. Monica Anderson

Author and DDS, Dr. Monica Anderson discusses race, health care, and surviving a rare cancer.

ep. 241

Heather Rogue: Centering Transness

Feb. 6, 2023

Heather Rogue

Heather Rogue, comedian and founder of Trans Sketual, chats creating the first Trans for Trans sketch comedy show, ADHD, stand-up comedy, homelessness, and much more!

ep. 240

A Big Bitch Manifesto

Jan. 30, 2023

Clarkisha Kent

Author and cultural critic, Clarkisha Kent, joins Fat Chicks to talk about her new memoir "Fat Off, Fat On: A Big Bitch Manifesto." This memoir focuses on her life and how fatphobia, health discrinimantion, racism, and colorism impacted the way she moves through the world. We chat about film, representation of Black folks in media, her experience in art school, and much more! Her new book is available for presale at https://www.feministpress.org/

ep. 239

ADHD, Intimacy, and Connection

Jan. 16, 2023

Wesley Toma

Wesley Toma, dating and relationship coach, joins Fat Chicks on Top to discuss coming out later in life, opening up a monogamous marriage, living with and loving someone with ADHD. His website is LearnGrowRepeat.com

ep. 238

Taking Down the Patriarchy (on Pantied A$$ at a time)

Jan. 9, 2023

Natasha Strange

Natasha Strange discusses her 30 years working as a pro Domme, kink coach, and owner of the only female-owned and run kink play space in the PDX area. She talks about coming into her dominant voice, what it taught her about femineity and being a woman, and how the kink world has changed in three decades.

ep. 237

This Woman is Awesome!

Nov. 21, 2022

Cathy Reisenwitz

Cathy Reisenwitz, writer and sex worker, joins Fat Chicks to talk about her journey from devote white Evangelical to sex worker and body liberationist. She talks extensively about her work unlearning what she was taught in church about purity, race, femininity, and love. She produces the popular substack newsletter Sex and the State.

ep. 236

Redefining Masculinity

Nov. 14, 2022

Ed Waters

Ed Waters, podcaster on Dead America, joins Fat Chicks to talk about how a life-altering accident forced him to rethink what it meant to be a man. After a serious back injury, Ed had to stop working in construction. As he lost strength and his job, he had to learn what masculinity meant to him.

ep. 235

Learn, Grow, Repeat

Nov. 7, 2022

Darren Campbell

Darren Campbell, therapist and coach, talks about coming out later in life, opening up his monogamous marriage, the gay dating scene in Boston, MA, living and loving with ADHD and more! His website can be found at http://www.learngrowrepeat.com

ep. 234

Bindiya Schafer: Expanding Sci-Fi

Oct. 31, 2022

Bindiya Schaefer: Expanding Sci-Fi

Bindiya Schaefer, author, joins Auntie Vice to chat about living around the world, science fiction, and finding the Desi writer's community in the California Bay Area.

ep. 233

Ruan Willow: F*cking Awesome

Oct. 23, 2022

Ruan Willow

Ruan Willow, podcaster and erotic writer, joins Auntie Vice to chat about delving into the depths of fantasy, talking about sex, and finding her voice as an author.

ep. 232

Free the Kink

Oct. 17, 2022

Mac and Hillary

Mac and Hillary, couple and founders of FreeTheKink.com join Auntie Vice to discuss living openly as a couple engaging in power exchange and kink. They discuss how they balance running a business, raising kids, and their power dynamic. They also discuss what founding a kink site has taught them.

ep. 231

Writing Spicy

Oct. 10, 2022

Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith, author, editor, and teacher, joins Auntie Vice to do a deep dive into erotic writing. They discuss finding their erotic voice, how it impacted their own life, and their relationship to "dark erotica." Additionally, they discuss being butch and nonbinary.

ep. 230

The Pegging Episode

Oct. 3, 2022

Cooper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller

Cooper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller join Auntie Vice to discuss their new book, "The Pegging Book." They discuss the cultural implications of pegging, finding their own sexual and relationship styles after being raised Catholic, and the joy of their current work.

ep. 229

Erotic Awakening

Spet. 26, 2022

Dan and Dawn

Dan and Dawn of EroticAwakening.com join Auntie Vice to discuss the intersection of polyamory and power exchange. They share some of these lessons in their newest book "Hearts and Collars" and on the show.

Ep. 228

Demi Wylde: Embraces Life

Sept. 19, 2022

Demi Wylde

Demi Wylde, podcaster and poet, joins FCOT to talk about pursuing the arts, hook-up horror stories, and much more!

ep. 227

Spencer Bishins: SSDI Demystified

Sept. 12, 2022

Spencer Bishins

Spencer Bishins, lawyer and former SSDI employee, chats about the SSDI process, where it goes wrong, and how to access the benefits you have paid into.

ep. 226

ReGina Smithwick: On Adoption

Sept. 9, 2022

ReGina Smithwick

ReGina Smithwick, life coach, joins FCOT to talk about her adoption story. She hid the fact she was adopted for 50 years from everyone, including her husband. She talks about what happen when she came out about being adopted, adopting her own daughter, and more!

ep. 225

Lori Sweetman: Comes Into Themselves

Aug. 29, 2022

Lori Sweetman

Lori Sweetman, former k12 educator and current LGBTQ activist, joins FCOT to talk about advocating for queer youth, coming out later in life, opening up their marriage, and more!

Ep. 224

Aug. 22, 2022

Ayzad

Ayzad, former Italian Journalist turned kink writer and educator, shares what he has learned from a lifetime of kink in the EU.

Ep. 223

Powerful Badass

Aug. 15, 2022

Nika Cherrelle

Nika Cherrelle is a fine art sculptor, host of The "It" Cast, empowerment coach, and all-arouind badass. She talke about going up in MO as a Black woman, what education taught her about her position in society, and how she has come to love herself.

ep. 222

Finding Your Voice

Aug. 8, 2022

Tallulah Breslin

Tallulah Breslin is gender-affirming voice coach. She shares the art and science of creating the voice you want.

ep. 221

This Wasn't Covered in the Book

Aug. 1, 2022

Mistress Schari

Mistress Schari has been a professional Dominatrix for over two decades. She shares what she has learned working as a Domme and a stripper.

ep. 220

July 25, 2022

Boss Boar

Boss Boar (kink educator) joins Fat Chicks to talk the psychology of kink, fear play, humiliation/degredation, advanced consent, and more!

ep. 219

July 18, 2022

Mir Green

Mir Green (owner, Wicked Grounds) joins Auntie Vice to talk politics, revolution, queeness, and keeping Starbucks out of the San Fancisco Leather District.

ep.218

Dr. Liz Powell: Invites You In

June 11, 2022

Dr. Liz Powell

Dr. Liz Powell joins Fat Chicks to talk about nonbinary identites, queerness, therapy, healing, and community trauma.

ep. 217

Jimanekia Eborn: Tending Her Garden

June 27, 2022

Jimanekia Eborn

Jimanekia Eborn, sexaul healing expert, talks about healing trauma, informed sexuality, and bisexuality.

ep. 216

Dulcinea Pitagora: Kink Doctor

June 20, 2022

Dulcinea Pitagora

Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the academic and spiritual understanding of kink. From early work as a pro-Domme in NYC to their academic work on sub-space, the heteronormativity of ano-receptive men in kink, and more! Auntie Vice gets to geek-out in conversation with another Ph.D. delving into the nuances of kink, trust, and connection. So. Much. Fun. Dr. Pitagora now works as a therapist and academic in NYC. They talk about a journey of gender affirmation, healing and kink, and much more. We also touch on their great kink reading list! Check out the links below.

ep. 215

Terry Dornak: Swashbuckling Bisexual

June 13, 2022

Terry Dornak

Jet Noir joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about burlesque, inspiration, living in iconic cities, and being raised in a sex-positive family in Detroit in the 1980s. As a Black, cis-male dancer, Jet has a different journey and experience with the art form that the other artists featured in the Erotic Performer series. One of my most interesting interviews!

214

Rahim Thawer: Gay, Muslim, and Fabulous!

June 6, 2022

Rahim Thawer

Rahim Thawer is a therapist focusing on LGBTQ folks witha sub-specialty in shame. He has lived in several countries and joins Fat Chicks to talk about queerness, shame, envy, and community. He provides insight into the role circut parties play in gay life around the world. He talks about the intersecting identities of being Muslim and gay.

Ep. 213

05/30/2022

Jet Noir

Jet Noir, burlesque dancer, joins the show to talk performing, burlesque, growing up in a sex-positive family, living around the U.S., and much more.

Ep. 211

Rae Luna: I'm Hot and I Know It!

May 16, 2022

Rae Luna

Rae Luna, nonbinary, brown, bigger-bodied burlseque dancer joins Fat Chicks to talk about getting comfortable with your own body, finding identity as a mixed-race person, and connecting with community. Find them at _Omoonrae_ on twitter and IG. Upcoming shows include July 8 with Om Nom Nom Nonbinary burlesque and July 22nd with No Cover Caberet in San Francisco, CA.

Ep. 210

Rain De Grey: Creating All the Things

Rain De Grey: Creating All the Things

Rain De Grey

Rain De Grey (author, podcaster, film star) joins Fat Chicks to talk about neurodivergence, kink, and creativity. Rain discusses how autism has shaped her approach to the world and allows her to be incredibly creative. We chat kink community, performance, and much more!

Ep. 209

Gretchen Felker Martin: Divine Filth

April 25, 2022

Gretchen Felker-Martin

Gretchen Felker-Martin (author) joins Fat Chicks to talk about her novel Manhunt. We discuss transness, fatness, creativity, and problematic TERFs.

Ep. 208

Imani Barbarin: Black, Disabled, Joy!

April 17, 2022

Imani Barbarin

Imani Barbarin (disabilities activist) discusses what it is like to be fat, Black, and disabled. We chat about the difference between American and French healthcare, the impending hiring crisis, COVID, and much more!

Ep. 207

April 11, 2022

Meg Elison

Meg Elison, Author (Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl), join Auntie Vice to talk writing, lesbian post-apocalyptic literature, bisexuality and more!

Ep. 206

Devyn Stone: Striving and Thriving

April 4, 2022

Devyn Stone

Devyn Stone, kink educator and writer, joins Fat Chicks to chat about becoming a kink educator, learning about the psychology of kink, being neurodivergent, the fawn response and their upcoming Thrive Conference.

Ep. 205

Jesse Rivera Finds His Tribe

March 27, 2022

Jesse Rivera

Comic and podcaster, Jesse Rivera, chats aging, turning 50, stand-up comedy, and podcasting. He sends love out to Sacramento comics and his favorite spots to perform and eat tacos.

Ep. 204

Comedy & Sex

March 20, 2022

Dani Deluca and Paul Spock

Danielle Deluca joins Auntie Vice and Erica Ambrin to chat working as a phone sex operator, dating, hoot-ups, weed and sex toys. Paul Spock joins Auntie Vice and Wendy Lewis to talk stand-up comedy, Type I diabetes, and DJing strip clubs.

Ep. 203

Alex Yarde and All Things Geek

Mar. 13, 2022

Alex Yarde, CharRon Smith

The Batman (2022) discussed with no spoilers, MCU Avengers, X-Men and Spiderman and representation, Power Rangers, Archer, Lovecraft County, RoboTech, Star Trek and more discussed in relationship to representation and writing.

Ep. 202

Xavier Bettencourt: So Gay

March 6, 2022

Xavier Bettencourt

Xavier Bettencourt is a sketch & improve comic and alter ego to Dolly Poppers. First interview recorded in 2019; Second interview recorded in 2022. Cover stage looks, developing personas, drag and body acceptance; corsets and body image; getting paid as a entertainer; transparency in paying performers; creating Queer Space; and surviving lockdown. 45:00 Moment of Gratitude: Xavier Bettencourt 40:00 Ask Your Auntie: Kitchen cleaning techniques; crushing on someone to the exclusion of all other interested parties

Ep. 1

Pilot

June 24, 2018

Wayne King; Renair Amin; ChaCha Burnadette

Wayne King discusses boylesque and La Croix; Renair Amin talks Pink Love, growing up in the Baptist church, healing, being non-binary and aggressive and Ms. Full Figure USA; ChaCha Burnadette talks bodies and burlesque.

Ep. 2

Healthy Bodies

June 25, 2018

Bevyn (Fat Kids Dance Party); AndYes (poet); April Lauren

Bevin discusses the origin of Fat Kids Dance Party and its future; AndYes discusses immigrant identity and slam poetry; Amber Lauren chats living with an invisible disab;lity; navigating the health care system

Ep. 3

Dating

June 24, 2018

Andrew Gurza; Melissa McMurray; Wendy Lewis

Andrew Gurza talks dating while disabled; managing personal care and dating; sex and pleasure for disabled folks; Melissa McMurray discusses kink, dating while fat, polyamory; Wendy Lewis chats weed, stand-up, and physical beauty

Ep. 4

Men

June 25, 2018

Ngaio Bealum; Issac Torres; Sean MacKinney

Ngaio discusses new show Cooking on High on Netflix; weed seshes; changes in weed in past decade; Ike Torres talks being a play write and being fat; Sean Mackinney discusses chronic migranes, male body image; polyamory

Ep. 5

Occupying Space

June 18, 2018

St. Francis AssEZ; Alice in Bondageland; Diana Hong

Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence; Chunky Dunk events; Shooting fun porn; bondage in public; cross-dressing club; Diana Hong discusses going from pro golfer to stoner stand-up;

Ep. 6

Healthy Bodies

Aug 18, 2018

Hetherbeth Woodford; Kelli Dunham

Importance of adult sex ed; teaching college students about sex; celebrating polyamory and kink; Kelli Dunham discusses going from nun to nurse to queer comic; trauma informed care; understanding yourself

Ep. 7

Sexy Bodies: 2

Aug. 29, 2018

Suz Ellis; Elle Chase

Suz Ellis talks being a curvy cam girl; dating in your 20s; dating apps; Elle Chase (Curvy Girl Sex) talks about aging, being bigger bodied; boudouir shots

Ep. 8

The Princess Kali & Body Political

Sept. 19, 2018

Princess Kali; Andi and Laika (producers) from Body Political

Pro Domming; kink; objectification play; kink community; burlesque; political burlesque

Ep. 9

This is 40!

Nov. 12, 2018

Evie Vane; Tina Hayes

Turning 40; freeing yourself of social expectations; sex after 40; changing bodies; eating disorders; kink; rope and bondage

901: Bonus

Bonus with Alice in Bondageland

Jan 10, 2019

Alice in Bondageland; Bevin from Fat Kids Dance Party

Eating out solo; self-care rituals; pet play

Ep. 10

Decolonizing Beauty

Jan. 29, 2019

Mariana Mocossos; Stacey Gee

Guest Mariana Mocossos discusses the Decolonizing Beauty project; unlearning western standards of beauty; embracing all beauty; Slam poetry; growing up Asian in America

Ep. 11

Sex Toys!

Feb. 27, 2019

Paul Imagine; Lindsey Hoppe

Paul Image- sex shop owner, discusses owning and running a sex shop and how to get the most out of your visit; Lindsey Hoppe discusses becoming a sex toy reviews, sex toys for bigger bodies.

902: Bonus

Nonbinary People on Nonbinary People

Mar. 20, 2019

Renair Amin; Koe Creation

Nonbinary people discuss what nonbinary means to them; how they figured out they were nonbinary; and coming to connect with other enby folks.

Ep. 12

Connections

Mar. 25, 2019

Koe Creation; Amy Estes

Koe Creation discusses their book "The Heart Holds Many" and growing up as a second generation polyam kid; Amy Estes discusses fad diets, intuitive eating, and learning to love herself

Ep. 13

Invisible Disabilities

Apr. 1, 2019

Erica Ambrin; Ali Yada; Amber Whitford

living with an invisible disability; navigating the healthcare system; Invisible Disabilities Comedy Show

Ep. 14b

Disability, Healing & Star Trek

May 11, 2019

Greyson Shultz; Katori Knight; Ashley Whitford

Living with C-PTSD; Learning to love a disabled body; nonbinary identities; Star Trek fans

Ep. 201

EARNIT Act & Rainbow Kiss

Feb. 27,2022

Sept. 23, 2019

EARNIT Act; Rainbow Kisses

Ep. 16

Queer Women

Sept. 23, 2018

Amy Estes, Ret. Sgt. Sage Fox, Carly DuHain; Shahera Hyatt

Dating while trans; dating while bisexual; UHauling relationships; lupus; bi-erasure; homeless youth; hecklers

Ep. 15

What a Drag!

May 25, 2019

Katori Knight; Eartha Tremors; Shahera Hyatt

Drag King vs. Drag Queens; RuPaul's Drag Race impact on current drag scene; finding a drag identity; San Francisco vs Sacramento drag scenes; community service

Ep. 14a

May 25, 2019

Ret. Sgt. Sage Fox; Carly DuHain; Shahera Hyatt; Amy Estes

Coming out in the military; fighting for trans service member's rights to serve; dating while trans; bi-erasure; dating as a bi woman; living with Lupus; UHauling