Communication

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There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

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I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

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Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...

BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...

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If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...