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The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...

Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner

The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...

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The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...

So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...

Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...

If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top , you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...

Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...

I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...

Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...

There are many different types and styles of wand vibrators available. How do you know which one works for you? Your Auntie is here to...

There are many styles of nipple clips out there? How do you find the one’s which are right for you? Nipples are erogenous zones for all...

Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...

By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...

Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...