Submission

Can I be a submissive and hate service?

There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...

BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...

When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...

If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...

You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...

Happy Holidays! Here is a little kinky holiday porn for y’all. CW: Impact play, body fluids Elise sat by the fire on the early morning of...

I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...

Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...

A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...