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I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...

BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...

We talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...

In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...

It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...

Submissives are some of the most seductive people in the world. Regardless of what we look like, if we are introverts or extroverts, or...

Service is quintessential to much of submission. Submissives of many ilks incorporate some form of service into their submission. We...

Dear Doms and Dommes: Thank you. Thank you for enjoying your role on the left of the slash. Without you, my life would not be nearly as...